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A 2024 collection of primary resources for self awareness and emotion regulation

30/01/2024 by Jean Gross

Here we have a collection of resources for primary school work on self-awareness and emotion regulation (relevant to the Good to be Me SEAL theme)

Dealing with difficult feelings lower KS2 - jealous, resentful, ashamed, excluded

03/10/2023 by Jean Gross

This comprehensive pack from Northern Ireland contains lessons and accompanying resources for work on some of the difficult feelings that can arise within relationships between people - jealousy, r

Building connectedness

26/06/2023 by Jean Gross

To help a class bond, particulary at the start of the new school year, try these primary lessons and activities.

Fabulous oracy based lessons for back to school (or any time)

31/05/2023 by Jean Gross

These fabulous free resources come from the Tower Hamlets Oracy Hub and Tower Hamlets Education Partnership.

Dicebreakers

31/05/2023 by Jean Gross

Usw these dicebreakers for a fun activity in small groups to bond a new class. Students work in groups, taking turns to roll a dice then answer a question.

Twenty ways to stay calm

11/04/2023 by Jean Gross

Twenty simple exercises to help children stay calm – a collection of breathing and relaxation exercises, with instructions and video links

A new changes and transitions collection

10/04/2023 by Jean Gross

 Here you will find

A booklist from the National Literacy Trust of favourite books about big changes (fiction , graphic novels, non-fiction and poetry)

Wellbeing activities booklet

10/04/2023 by Jean Gross

This is a booklet of short activities to promote wellbeing, for children (primary and secondary) to use at school or at home-  mindfulness, gratitude etc

Two lessonsabout non-verbal communication

10/04/2023 by Jean Gross

We liked this secondary Place2Be lesson about how we communicate, especially through non-verbal signals and facial expression. It will get students thinking about how they communicate online.

Poems for empathy from Michael Rosen's 'On the Move' collection

10/04/2023 by Jean Gross

Thse poems about the experience of migration and being a refugee are very useful for work on empathy and valuing difference.

Ten minute stress re-appraisal writing exercise to use before exams

09/04/2023 by Jean Gross

This provides instructions and readings for a writing exercise that helps pupils see exam stress as a positive that can help them perform at their best. Could be used before GCSEs or SATs.

The resilience game

29/11/2022 by Jean Gross

A simple board game which explores common scenarios that children may encounter in their day-to-day life at home or at school, and the resilience they may need for tackling them.

Young Minds Wellbeing Advent Calendars

25/11/2022 by Jean Gross

These are nice Advent Calendars to use with children and staff in December- created by Young Minds

Reaching out to others

01/11/2022 by Jean Gross

There are two lovely copiables in this primary resource- a 'hand' for children to record who they can reach out to when they need to talk, and a Reach Out Rainbow for them to colour in segments of,

Class debate about bystanders

01/11/2022 by Jean Gross

These nice PowerPoint lessons from Votes for Schools get primary and secondary pupils debating the role of bystanders in bullying- Do bystanders make bullying worse?

Helping children worried about the war in Ukraine resources

02/03/2022 by Jean Gross

Here we have some Twinkl resources for KS1 and for KS2, and a very useful Worrying about War resource from Sarah Johnson at Phoenix Education.

A social story for self-regulation

24/02/2022 by Jean Gross

Social Story framework to use with primary children to help them remember what they should do when they are about to ‘lose it’.

It's good to talk

16/02/2022 by Jean Gross

This is a nice lesson idea from Voice 21 for primary pupil, combining oracy with work on understanding and managing feelings. Childen can work in pairs on the activities...

Empathetic listening

16/02/2022 by Jean Gross

Here we have some lovely lessons from Voice 21 to help children learn the skills of listening with empathy.

Valuing yourself (primary)

21/01/2022 by Jean Gross


Templates using the concept of superheroes to encourage children to explore their own super powers, qualities and talents. There are resources for ages 4-5, 5-7 and 7-11

Wellbeing and self-care

20/01/2022 by Jean Gross

Really good lesson materials for Y6, from Public Health England on wellbeing (self-care).

Talking Mental Health

20/01/2022 by Jean Gross

This set of mental health resources from the Anna Freud Centre is for  9-11 year olds . There is an animation which you will find here

Worries work (primary)

20/01/2022 by Jean Gross

Here we have:

 a lesson based on the book a Huge Bag of Worries

an anxiety thermometer from the Anna Freud Centre  - useful for 1-1 work with children

The resilience ladder

31/10/2021 by Jean Gross

Here we have worksheets which help children set a goal, break it down into small steps and overcome obstacles along the way. With thanks to Mentally Healthy Schools.

Resilience board game

31/10/2021 by Jean Gross

This is a really engaging primary board game about resilience, created by the Anna Freud Centre.

The best of our back catalogue of New Beginnings-Place to Learn resources for the start of a new school year

29/07/2021 by Jean Gross

Angry feelings KS1

27/07/2021 by Jean Gross

  • Here we have  a fantastic KS1 lesson sequence, with resources, based on the picture book Ravi’s Roar, that combines oracy with work on understanding and managing angry feelings.

Connectedness, team building and getting to know you collection

27/07/2021 by Jean Gross

In this collection we have:

  • A primary assembly about connectedness from Place2Be
  • A piece-of-the puzzle primary assembly about connectedness and belonging, with jigsaw piece, from Mentally Healthy Schools/Anna Freud Centre
  • Two truths and a lie… eight great getting-to-know you activities for secondary and upper primary
  • Y7 team building favourites
  • Getting to know you activities from the PSHE Association

A new understanding, tracking and dealing with feelings collection

02/04/2021 by Jean Gross

Here we have:

A nice resource sheet for Reception/KS1 - helping the Colour Monster fill jars by drawing or writing things that make the child feel certain emotions

Some fabulous Colour Monster self regulation tools , for primary children to use to identify how they are feeling

A simple daily emotion tracker for primary, from the Anna Freud Centre. Can be used to help children identify and scale their feelings over the course of a week, at different times of the day and in different situations. .

The confidence collection

02/04/2021 by Jean Gross

This is a collection of resources on the theme of confidence.

For primary we have

- A self-belief assembly

- 'Superhero me': a resource that helps children think about their strengths

- A rebuild and recover resource to use with individual children to help them reframe negative thoughts

 

For primary and secondary there is:

-A 'challenging unhelpful thoughts' resource, again focused on overcoming negativity

-A really useful seven-session plan for 1-1 work with students who lack confidence

Who supports me

02/04/2021 by Jean Gross

50 ideas : Primary transition day resources for moving to new class

02/04/2021 by Jean Gross

River to the Sea

02/04/2021 by Jean Gross

The same but different

19/10/2020 by Jean Gross

This assembly plan and lesson resources were created as part of the Mentally Healthy Schools World Mental Health Day 2020 resources, but can be used any time for work on diversity and difference. There are lesson plans for three different primary age groups.

Back to school after lockdown primary resources

24/08/2020 by Jean Gross

Class DoJo animations and lessons

21/08/2020 by Jean Gross

 

You will really like these! Class DoJo have partnered with Yale, Stanford, and Harvard universities to create some really useful primary videos, discussion guides, and activities where students will:

• Manage powerful emotions through mindfulness

• Tackle self-talk and positive thinking

• Learn how to take on big challenges

• Explore moods and attitudes

• Discover the power of growth mindset

Find them at

https://ideas.classdojo.com/

You just need to create an account first if you haven't got one.

Calm-down choice cards and cam-down plan for primary pupils

21/08/2020 by Jean Gross

Devised by teachingwithmrso  (thank you!) , these are useful cards to cut out and laminate. Based on self-regulation theory, they are designed to help children identify an activity they can do to help calm themselves. By choosing a card themselves, they take responsibility for their own feelings and develop self-efficacy – the belief they can exercise control over their lives and learning

Also here is a nice template for a calm-dwn plan.

 

 

Moving on and making new friends KS2

10/04/2020 by Jean Gross

Moving home KS2 lesson

10/04/2020 by Jean Gross

Moving on to secondary school and making new friends

10/04/2020 by Jean Gross

Moving on to secondary school and making new friends

10/04/2020 by Jean Gross

We loved these Young Minds 'Find your feet' transition resources. They include films of young people discussing  moving on and  some great 'How to make friends hacks' with Beano . Find them here 

 

Beano KS1 resources on change

10/04/2020 by Jean Gross

Check out this collection of resilience resources

03/03/2020 by Jean Gross

There is

- a nice activity for any age group on what can keep us going when things are tough

- a ‘3 good things’ primary and secondary activity on positive thinking

- a nice ’balancing act’ activity and ‘find your balance ‘ image , also focused on staying positive

- a printable worksheet, best used in small groups or 1-1 settings. Pupils must finish the sentences ‘I am, I can, I have’, to help them talk about positive features in themselves

- a secondary lesson about resilience, with film clips and emoticon counters for a snakes and ladders game

Dealing with challenge

12/12/2019 by Jean Gross

New Year lesson plans

12/12/2019 by Jean Gross

This toolkit from Mentally Healthy Schools has primary activities, lesson plans and assembly plans to help children to think about who they are as a person, recognise what they are good at, identify positive things about themselves, learn from their experiences and set goals.

One 20-30 minute activity helps encourage staff and pupils to think about their aspirations for the year ahead, especially in relation to mental health and wellbeing.

Try the daily activities on this brilliant Advent Wellbeing Calendar from Young Minds with your class or tutor group

22/11/2019 by Jean Gross

Another bumper resource collection for Getting on/Learning to be together

09/09/2019 by Jean Gross

Here you will find:

Some classroom ideas for building a sense of community

Lessons in empathy: a nice primary lesson idea about welcoming a newcomer

Space Tortoise- a book to use for primary work on welcoming strangers

The Suitcase - A lovely picture book about kindness to strangers

A great primary/early secondary assembly Stop bullying with a tube of tooothpaste

Name the feeling EYFS and KS1

02/09/2019 by Jean Gross

Relationships - building a new classroom/setting community EYFS and KS1

02/09/2019 by Jean Gross

The biggest change... refugees and migrants lesson collection

03/05/2019 by Jean Gross

If you are working on the theme of change, why not focus on the experiences of refuges and migrants? We've uploaded a colection of resources here. Also useful for any work on empathy, diversity and belonging.

New resources for dealing with worries and feeling low

07/03/2019 by Jean Gross

Why should adults get all the self-help books? There are also lovely reads and activities for youngsters who need some extra support to feel relaxed, mindful, grateful, inspired and happy. Have a look at this selection of 13 books to children feel more calm and mindful, at https://www.booktrust.org.uk/booklists/c/calming-mindfulness/

For secondary students, follow these links to find a couple of useful True Tube films about stress and feeling down KS3 https://www.truetube.co.uk/film/stress-bag?tab=film KS3 and 4 https://www.truetube.co.uk/film/feeling-down?tab=film

Try these primary Good to be Me resources

07/03/2019 by Jean Gross

New primary Going for Goals round-up

02/01/2019 by Jean Gross

Tackling hate speech

07/09/2018 by Jean Gross

Ideas on helping older primary and secondary pupiils to understand why we sometimes use hate speech-speech which attacks a person or group on the basis of attributes such as race, religion, ethnic origin, sexual orientation, disability, or gender.

Resources to help children respect and value difference

07/09/2018 by Jean Gross

Here you'll find a moving video, a secondary PowerPoint resource created by pupils for pupils, and a bunch of nice activity ideas based on children's books.

Odd Dog template

06/09/2018 by Jean Gross

Read for Empathy guide

06/09/2018 by Jean Gross

We're all wonders resource pack for work on valuing differences

06/09/2018 by Jean Gross

A pack of teaching resources to support work on the book by R.J. Palacio - Wonder, adapted for younger readers as We’re All Wonders. Recently turned into a film starring Julia Roberts, it tells the story of a boy called Auggie with a facial abnormality who struggles to make friends. The simpler version confine itself to how people stare at him and say unkind things behind his back, and how that makes him feel. In the more complex original, his parents have to shield him from this by educating him at home, but now he is about to start school and dreading it.

All about me in a paper lunch bag? Try these great new back to school resources

24/08/2018 by Jean Gross

Zones of Regulation resources

01/05/2018 by Jean Gross

Emotional hijack and self regulation

30/04/2018 by Jean Gross

New transition collection

10/04/2018 by Jean Gross

Can you let go of your tree?

10/04/2018 by Jean Gross

Changes Anthony Browne primary lesson

10/04/2018 by Jean Gross

Positive thinking - a snakes and ladders game and lesson plan for secondary and upper primary

10/04/2018 by Jean Gross

Working on worries? Try this collection of primary book-based ideas

10/04/2018 by Jean Gross

SEAL books and teaching ideas by primary Theme

12/02/2018 by Jean Gross

A Mindfulness-based Kindness Curriculum

16/01/2018 by Jean Gross

We have more in commmon than that which divides us

14/08/2017 by Jean Gross

You may not have taken part in the summer Great Get Together event to celebrate the life of Jo Cox MP, who was killed because of her beliefs. But you can still use the nice classrooom activities from the resource pack devised by the Jo Cox Foundation, which help childen learn that they have lots in common with others they may feel different from. We've uploaded the primary and secondary packs here.

You'll also like this film 'The DNA journey- we are more alike than we think'- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tyaEQEmt5ls.

All-new resource compendium for your 2017 work on Getting On and Falling Out/Learning to be Together

09/08/2017 by Jean Gross

Get to know your new class and involve parents

09/08/2017 by Jean Gross

Get to know your new class and involve parents

09/08/2017 by Jean Gross

Understanding loss and death

30/03/2017 by Anonymous

Understanding stereotyping

30/03/2017 by Anonymous

Relationships theme Year 6 PowerPoints

30/03/2017 by Anonymous

Changes primary resources

30/03/2017 by Anonymous

New transitions compendium

30/03/2017 by Anonymous

Try these great mindfulness ideas

23/02/2017 by Jean Gross

Be yourself, don't be a lemming and other 'Good to be me' resources

23/02/2017 by Jean Gross

Working on persistence and resilience? Why not use the story of a robin ...

23/12/2016 by Jean Gross

Robins aren't just for Christmas. The Michael Morpurgo Coming Home story, read by the author at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RslbtKSrrns is just brilliant for helping children to explore ways of not giving up in the face of difficulties.

You can find  lesson plans to go with the story at https://www.waitrose.com/content/dam/waitrose/Christmas%202015/Midnight…

There is a nice KS2 literacy lesson plan with a dilemma activity that is perfect for SEAL, plus story mappping and exploring how the robin feels inside.

Massive 2016 Getting on and falling out primary resource compendium

26/09/2016 by Jean Gross

Here we have first some new planning additions to the members’ resources area of the website. We have some Y4 medium term SEAL planning from Jo Taylor, and from Fred Daynes (thank you Fred) PowerPoints of the Y4 and 5 Getting on lessons from the national resources.

For work on friendship, for the Foundation Stage we have a PowerPoint about how to be a SuperFriend, and a set of Reception/KS1 cards for children to fill in after the class have read Tony Ross’ I want a friend (uploaded by Angela Scrivens – thank you!)

The spaghetti marshmallow challenge

22/09/2016 by Jean Gross

British Values teaching resources compendium

19/09/2016 by Jean Gross

Schools in England are required to actively promote fundamental British values to their pupils, both in lessons and in extracurricular activities. The values are defined as democracy, the rule of law, individual liberty, mutual respect, and tolerance of those with different faiths and beliefs. Under the Prevent Duty, schools must also actively protect children from the dangers of extremism.

On Monday when it rained teaching ideas compendium

11/09/2016 by Jean Gross

My Many Coloured Days Dr Seuss book teaching ideas for Foundation Stage and KS1

11/09/2016 by Anonymous

Start Empathy Toolkit

11/09/2016 by Anonymous

Identity, conflict, belonging and refugees booklist

10/09/2016 by Anonymous

Celebrate kindness booklist

10/09/2016 by Anonymous

Axis of emotion

09/09/2016 by Jean Gross

A must-see short film

31/08/2016 by Jean Gross

Great ideas for new class team building

31/08/2016 by Anonymous

Eight questions to ask students at the start of the year

10/08/2016 by Jean Gross

50 primary activities for getting to know a new class

21/06/2016 by Jean Gross

Inside Out

06/05/2016 by Jean Gross

My grandchildren lost their mother- please use our resources on bereavement and loss

07/04/2016 by Jean Gross

I'm posting these resources for a very personal reason. My twin grandchildren lost their mother to cancer when they were five. They were in their first year at school. Every year issues crop up - this year around mothers' day. So this is a plea for all of you to include work on bereavement and loss in your everyday SEAL/PSHE work, even though it feels difficult.

A collection of mental health resources for primary

07/04/2016 by Jean Gross

OH...oh...oh! You must use this wonderful Giraffes Can't Dance film for Good to be Me

30/03/2016 by Jean Gross

Good to be me Year 5 daily plans and resources

15/02/2016 by Jean Gross

The worm who wished - but found it was Good to be Me!

15/02/2016 by Jean Gross

Going for goals, making resolutions and resilience new primary planning and resources for 2016

02/01/2016 by Anonymous

For primary we have first an interesting powerpoint from Studenth (thank you) introducing pupils to the concept of reflective practice, through writing a review of the year and New Year's resolutions. It takes them through four common steps of reflective practice - recall, evaluation, analysis and forming an action plan. Aimed at upper KS2, this could be adapted for younger KS2 pupils. Plus there's another New Year resolution slideshow,with VCOP!

Teaching teamwork

30/10/2015 by Anonymous

Lessons in friendship

28/10/2015 by Anonymous

For primary we have the Value of Friendship lesson with activities including friendship bingo and giving compliments, from avatarcrossy70 - big thanks. It comes with a WORD resource for the bingo game.

New Beginnings planning

10/08/2015 by Anonymous

Primary New Beginnings new resources compendium

10/08/2015 by Anonymous

Here we have a nice new idea for creating a classroom charter, and a variation on the charter - a class manifesto, with a teacher's example to help children get the idea.

Moving on up - pupil passports and booklets for transition from YR to 1 and primary to secondary

26/05/2015 by Anonymous

Changes and transitions medium term plans and PowerPoints

26/05/2015 by Anonymous

Got some girls making each other's lives a misery?

28/03/2015 by Anonymous

These lessons from The Ophelia Project in US help girls learn about 'relational aggression' -  the subtle tactics of social exclusion, spreading rumours and threats to withdraw friendship that are so common amongst girls. There are 6 lessons for each age group.

Great new primary lessons for Good to be Me

19/02/2015 by Jean Gross

Symbols of resilience

01/01/2015 by Anonymous

Lessons in goal setting and perseverance

01/01/2015 by Anonymous

Optimism whiteboard lesson or assembly for primary and secondary

01/01/2015 by Jean Gross

Lessons in grit and a grit quiz - for secondary and upper primary

30/12/2014 by Anonymous

Fabulous new year resolution resources

30/12/2014 by Anonymous

Working in groups

24/10/2014 by Anonymous

Acts of kindness

14/10/2014 by Jean Gross

Feelings resources for early years and KS1

26/08/2014 by Anonymous

Transition to secondary school

30/05/2014 by Anonymous

Exploring responsibility

30/05/2014 by Anonymous

Motivational poster about changes

30/05/2014 by Julie Casey

Father's day and families

14/04/2014 by Anonymous

Love and loss

14/04/2014 by Anonymous

Embarrassed? Teaching resources about the feeling

14/04/2014 by Anonymous

Lessons in empathy

11/04/2014 by Anonymous

These resources help children develop empathy. For primary schools there is a link to a Sesame Street film illustrating what empathy means, a lovely lesson called Empathy in a shoe box, and a Pass the Face circle activity to help children read social cues. There's an Empathy prints cut-out for literacy or history ( contributed to TES website by Temperance - thank you): students explore how a character might be feeling by imagining they are in their shoes and fill in the shoe outlines.

How are you feeling? Fun quiz for KS2 and 3

18/02/2014 by Jean Gross

Good to be me Year 2 medium term planning

18/02/2014 by Jean Gross

A lesson on courage

18/02/2014 by Jean Gross

Good to be me/Learning about me whiteboard resources

16/02/2014 by Jean Gross

Foundation Stage/KS1 New Year resolutions lesson

12/01/2014 by Anonymous

New Year resolution and goal sheet

27/12/2013 by Anonymous

Twenty iconic quotes on failure that will help children learn about persistence and resilience

27/12/2013 by Anonymous

Great all-age puppy video about goals and persistence

27/12/2013 by Anonymous

Going for goals - huge whiteboard resource of great clips/ideas/posters for lessons and assemblies on setting goals, persistence and resilience

27/12/2013 by Julie Casey

Films and lessons for anti-bullying or assertiveness/peer pressure work

28/10/2013 by Anonymous

Fabulous Powerpoints to kick off lessons on friendship and conflict resolution

24/09/2013 by Julie Casey

Cherokee Indian story about anger

24/09/2013 by Anonymous

An antibullying assembly for primary or secondary

17/09/2013 by Jean Gross

Moving on to a new class or school

26/06/2013 by Anonymous

Max's bad week

09/06/2013 by Anonymous