Member resources
A 2024 collection of primary resources for self awareness and emotion regulation
30/01/2024 by Jean Gross
Here we have a collection of resources for primary school work on self-awareness and emotion regulation (relevant to the Good to be Me SEAL theme)
Dealing with difficult feelings lower KS2 - jealous, resentful, ashamed, excluded
03/10/2023 by Jean Gross
This comprehensive pack from Northern Ireland contains lessons and accompanying resources for work on some of the difficult feelings that can arise within relationships between people - jealousy, r
Building connectedness
26/06/2023 by Jean Gross
To help a class bond, particulary at the start of the new school year, try these primary lessons and activities.
Fabulous oracy based lessons for back to school (or any time)
31/05/2023 by Jean Gross
These fabulous free resources come from the Tower Hamlets Oracy Hub and Tower Hamlets Education Partnership.
Dicebreakers
31/05/2023 by Jean Gross
Usw these dicebreakers for a fun activity in small groups to bond a new class. Students work in groups, taking turns to roll a dice then answer a question.
Twenty ways to stay calm
11/04/2023 by Jean Gross
Twenty simple exercises to help children stay calm – a collection of breathing and relaxation exercises, with instructions and video links
A new changes and transitions collection
10/04/2023 by Jean Gross
Here you will find
A booklist from the National Literacy Trust of favourite books about big changes (fiction , graphic novels, non-fiction and poetry)
Wellbeing activities booklet
10/04/2023 by Jean Gross
This is a booklet of short activities to promote wellbeing, for children (primary and secondary) to use at school or at home- mindfulness, gratitude etc
Two lessonsabout non-verbal communication
10/04/2023 by Jean Gross
We liked this secondary Place2Be lesson about how we communicate, especially through non-verbal signals and facial expression. It will get students thinking about how they communicate online.
Poems for empathy from Michael Rosen's 'On the Move' collection
10/04/2023 by Jean Gross
Thse poems about the experience of migration and being a refugee are very useful for work on empathy and valuing difference.
Ten minute stress re-appraisal writing exercise to use before exams
09/04/2023 by Jean Gross
This provides instructions and readings for a writing exercise that helps pupils see exam stress as a positive that can help them perform at their best. Could be used before GCSEs or SATs.
The resilience game
29/11/2022 by Jean Gross
A simple board game which explores common scenarios that children may encounter in their day-to-day life at home or at school, and the resilience they may need for tackling them.
Young Minds Wellbeing Advent Calendars
25/11/2022 by Jean Gross
These are nice Advent Calendars to use with children and staff in December- created by Young Minds
Reaching out to others
01/11/2022 by Jean Gross
There are two lovely copiables in this primary resource- a 'hand' for children to record who they can reach out to when they need to talk, and a Reach Out Rainbow for them to colour in segments of,
Class debate about bystanders
01/11/2022 by Jean Gross
These nice PowerPoint lessons from Votes for Schools get primary and secondary pupils debating the role of bystanders in bullying- Do bystanders make bullying worse?
Helping children worried about the war in Ukraine resources
02/03/2022 by Jean Gross
Here we have some Twinkl resources for KS1 and for KS2, and a very useful Worrying about War resource from Sarah Johnson at Phoenix Education.
A social story for self-regulation
24/02/2022 by Jean Gross
Social Story framework to use with primary children to help them remember what they should do when they are about to ‘lose it’.
It's good to talk
16/02/2022 by Jean Gross
This is a nice lesson idea from Voice 21 for primary pupil, combining oracy with work on understanding and managing feelings. Childen can work in pairs on the activities...
Empathetic listening
16/02/2022 by Jean Gross
Here we have some lovely lessons from Voice 21 to help children learn the skills of listening with empathy.
Valuing yourself (primary)
21/01/2022 by Jean Gross
Templates using the concept of superheroes to encourage children to explore their own super powers, qualities and talents. There are resources for ages 4-5, 5-7 and 7-11
Wellbeing and self-care
20/01/2022 by Jean Gross
Really good lesson materials for Y6, from Public Health England on wellbeing (self-care).
Talking Mental Health
20/01/2022 by Jean Gross
This set of mental health resources from the Anna Freud Centre is for 9-11 year olds . There is an animation which you will find here
Worries work (primary)
20/01/2022 by Jean Gross
Here we have:
a lesson based on the book a Huge Bag of Worries
an anxiety thermometer from the Anna Freud Centre - useful for 1-1 work with children
The resilience ladder
31/10/2021 by Jean Gross
Here we have worksheets which help children set a goal, break it down into small steps and overcome obstacles along the way. With thanks to Mentally Healthy Schools.
Resilience board game
31/10/2021 by Jean Gross
This is a really engaging primary board game about resilience, created by the Anna Freud Centre.
The best of our back catalogue of New Beginnings-Place to Learn resources for the start of a new school year
29/07/2021 by Jean Gross
Angry feelings KS1
27/07/2021 by Jean Gross
- Here we have a fantastic KS1 lesson sequence, with resources, based on the picture book Ravi’s Roar, that combines oracy with work on understanding and managing angry feelings.
Connectedness, team building and getting to know you collection
27/07/2021 by Jean Gross
In this collection we have:
- A primary assembly about connectedness from Place2Be
- A piece-of-the puzzle primary assembly about connectedness and belonging, with jigsaw piece, from Mentally Healthy Schools/Anna Freud Centre
- Two truths and a lie… eight great getting-to-know you activities for secondary and upper primary
- Y7 team building favourites
- Getting to know you activities from the PSHE Association
A new understanding, tracking and dealing with feelings collection
02/04/2021 by Jean Gross
Here we have:
A nice resource sheet for Reception/KS1 - helping the Colour Monster fill jars by drawing or writing things that make the child feel certain emotions
Some fabulous Colour Monster self regulation tools , for primary children to use to identify how they are feeling
A simple daily emotion tracker for primary, from the Anna Freud Centre. Can be used to help children identify and scale their feelings over the course of a week, at different times of the day and in different situations. .
The confidence collection
02/04/2021 by Jean Gross
This is a collection of resources on the theme of confidence.
For primary we have
- A self-belief assembly
- 'Superhero me': a resource that helps children think about their strengths
- A rebuild and recover resource to use with individual children to help them reframe negative thoughts
For primary and secondary there is:
-A 'challenging unhelpful thoughts' resource, again focused on overcoming negativity
-A really useful seven-session plan for 1-1 work with students who lack confidence
Who supports me
02/04/2021 by Jean Gross
50 ideas : Primary transition day resources for moving to new class
02/04/2021 by Jean Gross
River to the Sea
02/04/2021 by Jean Gross
The same but different
19/10/2020 by Jean Gross
This assembly plan and lesson resources were created as part of the Mentally Healthy Schools World Mental Health Day 2020 resources, but can be used any time for work on diversity and difference. There are lesson plans for three different primary age groups.
Back to school after lockdown primary resources
24/08/2020 by Jean Gross
Class DoJo animations and lessons
21/08/2020 by Jean Gross
You will really like these! Class DoJo have partnered with Yale, Stanford, and Harvard universities to create some really useful primary videos, discussion guides, and activities where students will:
• Manage powerful emotions through mindfulness
• Tackle self-talk and positive thinking
• Learn how to take on big challenges
• Explore moods and attitudes
• Discover the power of growth mindset
Find them at
You just need to create an account first if you haven't got one.
Calm-down choice cards and cam-down plan for primary pupils
21/08/2020 by Jean Gross
Devised by teachingwithmrso (thank you!) , these are useful cards to cut out and laminate. Based on self-regulation theory, they are designed to help children identify an activity they can do to help calm themselves. By choosing a card themselves, they take responsibility for their own feelings and develop self-efficacy – the belief they can exercise control over their lives and learning
Also here is a nice template for a calm-dwn plan.
Moving on and making new friends KS2
10/04/2020 by Jean Gross
Moving home KS2 lesson
10/04/2020 by Jean Gross
Moving on to secondary school and making new friends
10/04/2020 by Jean Gross
Moving on to secondary school and making new friends
10/04/2020 by Jean Gross
We loved these Young Minds 'Find your feet' transition resources. They include films of young people discussing moving on and some great 'How to make friends hacks' with Beano . Find them here
Beano KS1 resources on change
10/04/2020 by Jean Gross
Check out this collection of resilience resources
03/03/2020 by Jean Gross
There is
- a nice activity for any age group on what can keep us going when things are tough
- a ‘3 good things’ primary and secondary activity on positive thinking
- a nice ’balancing act’ activity and ‘find your balance ‘ image , also focused on staying positive
- a printable worksheet, best used in small groups or 1-1 settings. Pupils must finish the sentences ‘I am, I can, I have’, to help them talk about positive features in themselves
- a secondary lesson about resilience, with film clips and emoticon counters for a snakes and ladders game
Dealing with challenge
12/12/2019 by Jean Gross
New Year lesson plans
12/12/2019 by Jean Gross
This toolkit from Mentally Healthy Schools has primary activities, lesson plans and assembly plans to help children to think about who they are as a person, recognise what they are good at, identify positive things about themselves, learn from their experiences and set goals.
One 20-30 minute activity helps encourage staff and pupils to think about their aspirations for the year ahead, especially in relation to mental health and wellbeing.
Try the daily activities on this brilliant Advent Wellbeing Calendar from Young Minds with your class or tutor group
22/11/2019 by Jean Gross
Another bumper resource collection for Getting on/Learning to be together
09/09/2019 by Jean Gross
Here you will find:
Some classroom ideas for building a sense of community
Lessons in empathy: a nice primary lesson idea about welcoming a newcomer
Space Tortoise- a book to use for primary work on welcoming strangers
The Suitcase - A lovely picture book about kindness to strangers
A great primary/early secondary assembly Stop bullying with a tube of tooothpaste
Name the feeling EYFS and KS1
02/09/2019 by Jean Gross
Relationships - building a new classroom/setting community EYFS and KS1
02/09/2019 by Jean Gross
The biggest change... refugees and migrants lesson collection
03/05/2019 by Jean Gross
If you are working on the theme of change, why not focus on the experiences of refuges and migrants? We've uploaded a colection of resources here. Also useful for any work on empathy, diversity and belonging.
New resources for dealing with worries and feeling low
07/03/2019 by Jean Gross
Why should adults get all the self-help books? There are also lovely reads and activities for youngsters who need some extra support to feel relaxed, mindful, grateful, inspired and happy. Have a look at this selection of 13 books to children feel more calm and mindful, at https://www.booktrust.org.uk/booklists/c/calming-mindfulness/
For secondary students, follow these links to find a couple of useful True Tube films about stress and feeling down KS3 https://www.truetube.co.uk/film/stress-bag?tab=film KS3 and 4 https://www.truetube.co.uk/film/feeling-down?tab=film
Try these primary Good to be Me resources
07/03/2019 by Jean Gross
New primary Going for Goals round-up
02/01/2019 by Jean Gross
Tackling hate speech
07/09/2018 by Jean Gross
Ideas on helping older primary and secondary pupiils to understand why we sometimes use hate speech-speech which attacks a person or group on the basis of attributes such as race, religion, ethnic origin, sexual orientation, disability, or gender.
Resources to help children respect and value difference
07/09/2018 by Jean Gross
Here you'll find a moving video, a secondary PowerPoint resource created by pupils for pupils, and a bunch of nice activity ideas based on children's books.
Odd Dog template
06/09/2018 by Jean Gross
Read for Empathy guide
06/09/2018 by Jean Gross
We're all wonders resource pack for work on valuing differences
06/09/2018 by Jean Gross
A pack of teaching resources to support work on the book by R.J. Palacio - Wonder, adapted for younger readers as We’re All Wonders. Recently turned into a film starring Julia Roberts, it tells the story of a boy called Auggie with a facial abnormality who struggles to make friends. The simpler version confine itself to how people stare at him and say unkind things behind his back, and how that makes him feel. In the more complex original, his parents have to shield him from this by educating him at home, but now he is about to start school and dreading it.
All about me in a paper lunch bag? Try these great new back to school resources
24/08/2018 by Jean Gross
Zones of Regulation resources
01/05/2018 by Jean Gross
Emotional hijack and self regulation
30/04/2018 by Jean Gross
New transition collection
10/04/2018 by Jean Gross
Can you let go of your tree?
10/04/2018 by Jean Gross
Changes Anthony Browne primary lesson
10/04/2018 by Jean Gross
Positive thinking - a snakes and ladders game and lesson plan for secondary and upper primary
10/04/2018 by Jean Gross
Working on worries? Try this collection of primary book-based ideas
10/04/2018 by Jean Gross
SEAL books and teaching ideas by primary Theme
12/02/2018 by Jean Gross
A Mindfulness-based Kindness Curriculum
16/01/2018 by Jean Gross
We have more in commmon than that which divides us
14/08/2017 by Jean Gross
You may not have taken part in the summer Great Get Together event to celebrate the life of Jo Cox MP, who was killed because of her beliefs. But you can still use the nice classrooom activities from the resource pack devised by the Jo Cox Foundation, which help childen learn that they have lots in common with others they may feel different from. We've uploaded the primary and secondary packs here.
You'll also like this film 'The DNA journey- we are more alike than we think'- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tyaEQEmt5ls.
All-new resource compendium for your 2017 work on Getting On and Falling Out/Learning to be Together
09/08/2017 by Jean Gross
Get to know your new class and involve parents
09/08/2017 by Jean Gross
Get to know your new class and involve parents
09/08/2017 by Jean Gross
Understanding loss and death
30/03/2017 by Anonymous
Understanding stereotyping
30/03/2017 by Anonymous
Relationships theme Year 6 PowerPoints
30/03/2017 by Anonymous
Changes primary resources
30/03/2017 by Anonymous
New transitions compendium
30/03/2017 by Anonymous
Try these great mindfulness ideas
23/02/2017 by Jean Gross
Be yourself, don't be a lemming and other 'Good to be me' resources
23/02/2017 by Jean Gross
Working on persistence and resilience? Why not use the story of a robin ...
23/12/2016 by Jean Gross
Robins aren't just for Christmas. The Michael Morpurgo Coming Home story, read by the author at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RslbtKSrrns is just brilliant for helping children to explore ways of not giving up in the face of difficulties.
You can find lesson plans to go with the story at https://www.waitrose.com/content/dam/waitrose/Christmas%202015/Midnight…
There is a nice KS2 literacy lesson plan with a dilemma activity that is perfect for SEAL, plus story mappping and exploring how the robin feels inside.
Massive 2016 Getting on and falling out primary resource compendium
26/09/2016 by Jean Gross
Here we have first some new planning additions to the members’ resources area of the website. We have some Y4 medium term SEAL planning from Jo Taylor, and from Fred Daynes (thank you Fred) PowerPoints of the Y4 and 5 Getting on lessons from the national resources.
For work on friendship, for the Foundation Stage we have a PowerPoint about how to be a SuperFriend, and a set of Reception/KS1 cards for children to fill in after the class have read Tony Ross’ I want a friend (uploaded by Angela Scrivens – thank you!)
The spaghetti marshmallow challenge
22/09/2016 by Jean Gross
British Values teaching resources compendium
19/09/2016 by Jean Gross
Schools in England are required to actively promote fundamental British values to their pupils, both in lessons and in extracurricular activities. The values are defined as democracy, the rule of law, individual liberty, mutual respect, and tolerance of those with different faiths and beliefs. Under the Prevent Duty, schools must also actively protect children from the dangers of extremism.
On Monday when it rained teaching ideas compendium
11/09/2016 by Jean Gross
My Many Coloured Days Dr Seuss book teaching ideas for Foundation Stage and KS1
11/09/2016 by Anonymous
Start Empathy Toolkit
11/09/2016 by Anonymous
Identity, conflict, belonging and refugees booklist
10/09/2016 by Anonymous
Celebrate kindness booklist
10/09/2016 by Anonymous
Axis of emotion
09/09/2016 by Jean Gross
A must-see short film
31/08/2016 by Jean Gross
Great ideas for new class team building
31/08/2016 by Anonymous
Eight questions to ask students at the start of the year
10/08/2016 by Jean Gross
50 primary activities for getting to know a new class
21/06/2016 by Jean Gross
Inside Out
06/05/2016 by Jean Gross
My grandchildren lost their mother- please use our resources on bereavement and loss
07/04/2016 by Jean Gross
I'm posting these resources for a very personal reason. My twin grandchildren lost their mother to cancer when they were five. They were in their first year at school. Every year issues crop up - this year around mothers' day. So this is a plea for all of you to include work on bereavement and loss in your everyday SEAL/PSHE work, even though it feels difficult.
A collection of mental health resources for primary
07/04/2016 by Jean Gross
OH...oh...oh! You must use this wonderful Giraffes Can't Dance film for Good to be Me
30/03/2016 by Jean Gross
Good to be me Year 5 daily plans and resources
15/02/2016 by Jean Gross
The worm who wished - but found it was Good to be Me!
15/02/2016 by Jean Gross
Going for goals, making resolutions and resilience new primary planning and resources for 2016
02/01/2016 by Anonymous
For primary we have first an interesting powerpoint from Studenth (thank you) introducing pupils to the concept of reflective practice, through writing a review of the year and New Year's resolutions. It takes them through four common steps of reflective practice - recall, evaluation, analysis and forming an action plan. Aimed at upper KS2, this could be adapted for younger KS2 pupils. Plus there's another New Year resolution slideshow,with VCOP!
Teaching teamwork
30/10/2015 by Anonymous
Lessons in friendship
28/10/2015 by Anonymous
For primary we have the Value of Friendship lesson with activities including friendship bingo and giving compliments, from avatarcrossy70 - big thanks. It comes with a WORD resource for the bingo game.
New Beginnings planning
10/08/2015 by Anonymous
Primary New Beginnings new resources compendium
10/08/2015 by Anonymous
Here we have a nice new idea for creating a classroom charter, and a variation on the charter - a class manifesto, with a teacher's example to help children get the idea.
Moving on up - pupil passports and booklets for transition from YR to 1 and primary to secondary
26/05/2015 by Anonymous
Changes and transitions medium term plans and PowerPoints
26/05/2015 by Anonymous
Got some girls making each other's lives a misery?
28/03/2015 by Anonymous
These lessons from The Ophelia Project in US help girls learn about 'relational aggression' - the subtle tactics of social exclusion, spreading rumours and threats to withdraw friendship that are so common amongst girls. There are 6 lessons for each age group.
Great new primary lessons for Good to be Me
19/02/2015 by Jean Gross
Symbols of resilience
01/01/2015 by Anonymous
Lessons in goal setting and perseverance
01/01/2015 by Anonymous
Optimism whiteboard lesson or assembly for primary and secondary
01/01/2015 by Jean Gross
Lessons in grit and a grit quiz - for secondary and upper primary
30/12/2014 by Anonymous
Fabulous new year resolution resources
30/12/2014 by Anonymous
Working in groups
24/10/2014 by Anonymous
Acts of kindness
14/10/2014 by Jean Gross
Feelings resources for early years and KS1
26/08/2014 by Anonymous
Transition to secondary school
30/05/2014 by Anonymous
Exploring responsibility
30/05/2014 by Anonymous
Motivational poster about changes
30/05/2014 by Julie Casey
Father's day and families
14/04/2014 by Anonymous
Love and loss
14/04/2014 by Anonymous
Embarrassed? Teaching resources about the feeling
14/04/2014 by Anonymous
Lessons in empathy
11/04/2014 by Anonymous
These resources help children develop empathy. For primary schools there is a link to a Sesame Street film illustrating what empathy means, a lovely lesson called Empathy in a shoe box, and a Pass the Face circle activity to help children read social cues. There's an Empathy prints cut-out for literacy or history ( contributed to TES website by Temperance - thank you): students explore how a character might be feeling by imagining they are in their shoes and fill in the shoe outlines.
How are you feeling? Fun quiz for KS2 and 3
18/02/2014 by Jean Gross
Good to be me Year 2 medium term planning
18/02/2014 by Jean Gross
A lesson on courage
18/02/2014 by Jean Gross
Good to be me/Learning about me whiteboard resources
16/02/2014 by Jean Gross
Foundation Stage/KS1 New Year resolutions lesson
12/01/2014 by Anonymous
New Year resolution and goal sheet
27/12/2013 by Anonymous
Twenty iconic quotes on failure that will help children learn about persistence and resilience
27/12/2013 by Anonymous
Great all-age puppy video about goals and persistence
27/12/2013 by Anonymous
Going for goals - huge whiteboard resource of great clips/ideas/posters for lessons and assemblies on setting goals, persistence and resilience
27/12/2013 by Julie Casey
Films and lessons for anti-bullying or assertiveness/peer pressure work
28/10/2013 by Anonymous
Fabulous Powerpoints to kick off lessons on friendship and conflict resolution
24/09/2013 by Julie Casey
Cherokee Indian story about anger
24/09/2013 by Anonymous
An antibullying assembly for primary or secondary
17/09/2013 by Jean Gross
Moving on to a new class or school
26/06/2013 by Anonymous
Max's bad week
09/06/2013 by Anonymous